For the most comfortable reach, aim for a nightstand that sits 5-10 cm below...

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For the most comfortable reach, aim for a nightstand that sits 5-10 cm below the top of your mattress. Most standard beds work best with a table height between 55 and 70 cm. Measure your bed while the bedding is on, as that extra thickness matters